1) Confident, independent (not blindly follow other or influenced by others opinion), strong (not easily quit, grit, or perseverance) ;
2) Empathy, humility, know how to wear other people’s shoes and feel other people’s pain (同情心);
3) 不卑不亢（english translation? It seems bullet 1 covers this too. List it here as this is my father taught me, likely from his own life experience.);
4) Grounded, down to earth. Don’t take self too seriously, have a sense of humor. 平易近人, 幽默感。